Affirmations to Open Your Heart to Love Before Valentine’s Day

4 min readJan 8, 2023


As human beings, we all crave love and connection.

Unfortunately, our past experiences or negative self-beliefs can sometimes hold us back from fully opening our hearts to love. That’s where affirmations come in.

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Affirmations are positive statements that can help to reprogram our minds and shift our thoughts and beliefs.

By consistently repeating affirmations, we can begin to believe them and see positive changes in our lives.

Here are ten affirmations to help you open your heart to love:

  1. “I am worthy of love and deserve to be loved.” It’s important to remember that you are worthy of love, no matter what your past experiences may have led you to believe. You deserve to be loved and to experience the joy and fulfillment that love brings.
  2. “I am open to love and all the blessings it brings.” By declaring that you are open to love, you are allowing yourself to be receptive to it. Remember that love brings many blessings, including happiness, connection, and support.
  3. “I release any past pain or negativity that may be blocking my ability to love and be loved.” It’s natural to have past experiences that may have caused pain or hurt, but it’s important to let go of that pain in order to move forward and open yourself up to love. Use this affirmation to release any negativity or hurt that may be holding you back.
  4. “I choose to love myself and treat myself with kindness and compassion.” Self-love is an essential foundation for fully opening your heart to love. By choosing to love and care for yourself, you are setting the stage for being able to receive love from others.
  5. “I am grateful for the love that surrounds me and the love yet to come.” Be thankful for the love you already have in your life, whether it be from family, friends, or a romantic partner. By focusing on gratitude, you open yourself up to even more love in the future.
  6. “I am confident in my ability to attract and maintain healthy, loving relationships.” Believe in yourself and your ability to attract and maintain healthy, loving relationships. Confidence is attractive and will help you to be open to love when it comes your way.
  7. “I let go of any fear or doubt and trust in the Universe to bring me the love I desire.” Fear and doubt can be major barriers to love. Let go of those negative emotions and trust that the Universe has a plan to bring you the love you desire.
  8. “I am open to new experiences and opportunities for love.” Don’t be closed off to new experiences and opportunities for love. Keep an open mind and be open to the possibility of love coming into your life in unexpected ways.
  9. “I radiate love and positivity and attract love in return.” You will naturally attract love into your life by focusing on love and positivity. Remember that energy attracts like energy, so make sure you are putting out good vibes.
  10. “I am thankful for the love in my life and allow it to flow freely.” Be thankful for your love and allow it to flow freely. When we hold onto love too tightly, we can suffocate it. Let love come and go as it pleases and watch as it grows and expands.

Use these affirmations daily, either in the morning as a part of your daily routine or anytime throughout the day, as a reminder to keep your heart open to love.

With consistent practice, you will begin to see positive changes in your life and a greater openness to love.

It’s also important to remember that affirmations are only one piece of the puzzle. In order to fully open your heart to love, it’s important to work on yourself and your self-love and self-worth.

This can include things like therapy, self-care, and personal growth.

Another tip is to surround yourself with love and positivity. Surround yourself with people who love and support you, and engage in activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment. Creating a positive and loving environment for yourself sets the stage for love to enter your life.

Finally, be patient and trust the process.

Love may not come in the way you expect or at the time you want, but it will come when you are ready and open to it. Trust that the Universe has a plan for you and that everything happens for a reason.

Affirmations are a powerful tool to help open your heart to love.

By consistently repeating positive statements, you can shift your thoughts and beliefs and create positive changes in your life.

Remember to work on yourself, surround yourself with love and positivity, and trust the process. With a little patience and practice, you can open your heart to love and experience all the blessings it brings.

Originally published at on January 8, 2023.